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Oct 29, 2023Liked by Leigh Kamping-Carder

This article is so 100 percent about how I feel, especially the having children. I was always told no but I was young and it wasn’t something I really thought about. When I met my husband I had a drs appointment and we discussed the issue deeply and it was a no. When I told my future husband he was absolutely fine with it. I do however feel that I probably could had on child, but I always follow drs advice. I’m 57 now, and I think doctors now versus then are are more open to us having children.

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Thank you for sharing, Catherine. That's interesting to hear your experience. I do think the medical advice on so many things is changing all the time!

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Oct 29, 2023Liked by Leigh Kamping-Carder

Thank you for posting this story. I was a blue baby in ‘58. Had OHS for pulmonary stenosis in ‘60. No sports for me growing up, although I wanted to be on the track team. I never heard of an ACHD doctor until I began getting SOB walking up hills 2 years ago. I’ve learned a TON since. Pending OHS for new valve is scary, but I’m preparing myself as best as I can. Would like to find someone in my area (No Cal) that has had similar.

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Wow, that must have been a steep learning curve. Thank you for sharing.

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Oct 29, 2023Liked by Leigh Kamping-Carder

This might be my favorite interview so far. Leah's perspective on her scar, her frustration, and many other things resonate deeply. I also love the reference to her Jewish name and its meaning!

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Glad to hear that! A lot of it hit home with me too. :)

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